This deserves a push……..
This will cause me to no longer be anonymous but I don’t know what else to do..
Please help me spread this…
For your reading pleasure babe
If you are driving when you get this, PLEASE answer when it is safe
Sent by Skip’s I Phone
Begin forwarded message:
From: Skip Sage
Date: March 5, 2013, 1:22:40 PM EST
Subject: I NEED Help please
To Whom it concerns,
My name is Bernard P. Sage. I am the father of Denise E Anderson Sage. Denise is has been in the process of divorcing her husband Eric C Anderson for nearly 2 years now. The proceeding is being presided over by Judge Schoonover.
There are 4 minor girls, my grand daughters involved in this mess. The oldest is 14 and the youngest is 8. I need some assistance because every time that my daughter appears before Judge Linda Schoonover, she…
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……and I’ll grow up to repeat it because it’s all I ever learned from you. I too will believe that others can magically make me do things. It’s not my fault that I hit my little sister. She made mad when she broke my favorite toy. Like YOU made daddy mad when YOU burned dinner last night.
When I’m a bit older, it will be my girlfriend’s fault that she made me so jealous that I hit her after she talked to a boy in her class. She said he only wanted homework notes- but I KNOW she lies because I KNOW what she is thinking.
Now that I’m a man, and supposed to be in charge, my family makes me so mad sometimes. I don’t know which way is up, or down, or who controls who. All I know is that I’m supposed to be in control, but they are making me do these things, which means I’m not really in control and that makes me very, very mad. It’s also because of HER that I drink. I drink because she makes me mad AND jealous. She makes me cheat on her because she never wants to have sex anymore. I wonder constantly if she is cheating because if she doesn’t want to have sex with me, then it must be someone else she is doing it with. Sometimes I hit the kids too because I get frustrated and angry at their constant need for attention and demanding cries. It’s always about them, what they need and want, and I am ignored yet again. I hate that she has to spend so much time worrying about them, when she should be making me happy like mom did with dad.
This is a typical story and mentality for a person who grows up to be domineering and abusive towards others. This is because these people, men and women alike, grow up in abusive homes that have most likely been perpetuated for generations. The time has come for parents to come to terms with their pasts, so that they don’t perpetuate the violence and mental illnesses (magical thinking) onto the next generation of impressionable kids. These abusers all have one thing in common. They have magical thinking disorder and believe others MAKE them feel and act in certain ways. The magical thinking needs to stop at some point, folks. Usually it stops about the time one realizes Santa Claus is really just our parents!
Again- If we are both coming from our own individual feelings of kindness, compassion, and respect for others, how can we go wrong? To want or accept anything else is REAL mental illness .